My parents didn't talk about sex. Ever. And honestly, I'm glad they didn't.
"Don't have sex. Because you'll get pregnant and die." A quote from the movie, Mean Girls, that soon became popular among schools and colleges.
It
might be a funny quote, but truly, young adults need to learn about sex
and safety before being sexually active. Completely banning the
activity will not necessary help students, but let them go uneducated
about some very important topics.
We live in a modern society where matters can be spoken, such as sex, sexual diseases, sexual preferences, etc.
But are we comfortable to talk about it? We should be.
You
probably weren't as comfortable as the teacher that spoke about sex
when you were in high school, made you feel like you were living in
another world. You were so uncomfortable that you started to blush as
you saw the close ups of female and male anatomy.
Well, we don't
have to be that comfortable talking about sex, but we surely need to be
aware of what might happen before, during and after sex.
Interestingly
enough, sex can be described as erotic touch, sex toys, pan sexual,
oral sex, anal sex, sex games, fantasies, vaginal intercourse, bisexual,
homosexual, heterosexual, masturbation and even kissing.
Remember, sex cannot be 100 percent safe, but it can get very close to it.
The use of a contraceptive or a barrier method
is a great suggestion, but remember, it won't avoid diseases or
viruses. Unfortunately, there are many sexually transmitted diseases and
infections, along with venereal diseases.
HPV, herpes, HIV,
syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, Hepatitis and many others are some of
these issues that are curable with the use of antibiotics, while others
remain in your body as long as you live. So before you engage in sexual
activities, be aware of the consequences and how to avoid them as well.
In this century more sexual diseases
were reported than ever before, despite schools and institutions
teaching safe methods for intercourse. It's a shame that we do not take
the lessons we were at school and try to apply it on a daily basis.
Next
time you go to a party, be aware of how much are you drinking. Most
unsafe sex happens when both participants are not sober, leading them to
engage in dangerous activities.
My best advice is to communicate.
Whatever is bothering you, let your partner know how you feel.
Relationships depend on affection, love, companionship, sex and friendship.
Be open about your preferences and fears-- it will save you a lot of trouble. Be safe.
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